As an educated African American, I try not to let someone's "blackness" excuse them for committing illegal acts. I do this with the mindset and understanding that this may be all they know, dependent on their environment, socially perceived as normal behavior, and that we should not judge others unless we walked in their shoes...
That being said, I like R Kelly...I think he's wonderfully talented, and seems like a smooth, easy going individual. When the "sex tapes" first came out, even without seeing it, I said it wasn't him, and "he didn't do it!" Then I saw the tapes...I was at the hair salon getting my locks done, and someone brought in the tapes. The whole salon stopped and just stared at the television. And, in my heart, I really think it was R Kelly. BUT, I just didn't want to admit it! I didnt want another black male getting incarcerated, especially when he was SO TALENTED! Im guilty...I'll admit, if that was a caucasian actor, I would have been yelling for his persecution...
So, the secret is out! I excuse the behavior of black people a little too much sometime. I always have to put it in perspective,"what would I feel about this is the person was white?" Would I be so forgiving??
When I do that assessment, I will admit, I can make a more fair assessment. Im only human, and I know if our laws were a little less stringent and jurors didnt make the decision he would be in incarcerated...
but, Im still glad he didn't go to jail...He's dropping another album next month...terrible, huh?
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